The teen years are a time of experimentation and risk taking. Whether it involves fashion or hairstyles or places to hang out, teens tend to gravitate toward things and people that are new and exciting to them.
Experimentation is a normal and necessary part of growing up and developing a sense of independence. Through taking risks, teens learn who they are and what their limits are.
Sometimes, experimentation and taking risks involves trying psychoactive substances, such as tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs. While some teens continue drinking and taking drugs, others lose interest in substance use or find new ways to both entertain themselves and cope with the pressures of teen life.
Some teens turn to alcohol, tobacco and other drugs for environmental reasons. For example, they may start drinking as a way of seeking relief from a difficult family situation, or they begin using substances to assert their independence from a controlling atmosphere at home or school. Some teens smoke, drink, or use other drugs in response to pressure from family or friends to be more mature, while others start and continue to use alcohol and other drugs because they’re acceptable and readily available from the people around them—their parents, adult role models, and friends.
Some teens experiment with tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs for intellectual reasons. They want to satisfy their curiosity about substances they’ve heard or read about. Others experiment because they’re bored and don’t have a reason not to try something risky, such as a goal that would be threatened by substance use. Sometimes young people continue drinking or taking drugs because being tipsy or high lets them experience the world in a new and different way. Many feel drugs help them learn about and connect with their deeper selves.
Young people often use substances for physical reasons. Uptight teens turn to alcohol to relax. Sensation-seeking teens get off on the buzz they get from drinking and taking drugs, while others turn to methamphetamine and other drugs for the extra boost they can provide. For some young people, any substance suffices to dull physical pain.
Some teens take to alcohol and drugs for emotional reasons. Some look for ways to escape from emotional upsets or anxiety. Others drown themselves in substances to avoid having to make tough decisions. For many teens, being a bit drunk or high gives them the confidence and self-esteem they need to cope with their lives and environment. They feel they can connect better with their friends when they’re using certain substances, such as ecstasy.
For many teens, the social reasons for experimenting with alcohol and drugs are the most important. Teens who want to fit in with their friends often have a hard time turning down opportunities to party and be “one of the gang.” Alcohol and other drugs also help some young people, especially those who are shy or lonely, communicate more freely and become more at ease within a group of peers.
It’s important for parents to realize that teens drink or take other drugs because there are real or perceived benefits to using substances. It’s also important for parents to understand that part of their job is to remind their children about the risks or potential harms associated with substance use.
The best way to make sure your teen stays informed about tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs is to maintain an open line of communication. By talking to your teen, you’ll be able to learn about the influences and experiences in their life which cause them to consider using substances. You’ll also pave the way toward truthful and open dialogue in the event their use of substances becomes problematic.
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